Emirati Hospitality Guides
First-time hosts ask about the menu. People who have hosted a few times know the menu is the last thing.
Emirati hospitality is an order of service before it is food: who you begin with, when you serve, how long you leave between one round and the next, and who serves the men's majlis while someone else serves the women's. Get the order right and the simplest spread hosts well.
These guides are written from the service itself, not from books. Each one answers a question that reaches us on WhatsApp more often than the rest. How many servers do I need? What goes out first? How is a condolence majlis served? What is the difference between fwala and dinner?
They all rest on one thing: the men's majlis and the women's majlis are served separately, at the same price. That is the first question on every family occasion, and it decides crew numbers and where they stand before anything else. Luqaimat are cooked at the table in every package, not only the large ones, which changes how the room is laid out more than it changes the menu.
The guides do not stop at serving. They cover what comes before it: when to book, how long the crew needs before guests arrive, and where setup ends and the majlis begins. Our lead time is 48 hours. Anything sooner is arranged directly by phone or WhatsApp rather than through the site.
If you are planning an occasion and want to see the packages and guest numbers, the packages page has the detail: six packages from 15 to 70+ guests, with crew and your choice of hot and cold beverages included in each.
If your question is about pricing, lead time or crew, the hospitality questions page is closer to it. If you want to know where we deliver and what the transport fee is, service areas has the full table.
Every published guide is below. If your answer is not here, message us — a question we get twice becomes a guide.
Arabic Coffee and Dates: The Order of Service
Who is served first, how much is poured, and how a guest says they have had enough. The etiquette behind the first thing offered in a majlis.
Hosting the Women's Majlis at Home
What a women's majlis needs from its hospitality, how the room is served, and why it is staffed separately at the same price.
Setting Up a Condolence Majlis in Abu Dhabi — A Complete Guide
What a condolence house actually needs — the tent, the coffee servers, the gahwa, the women's majlis and how many crew. A practical guide for families in Abu Dhabi.